My Experience Learning Languages

A forum user asked me to create a thread and explain my background and how I learn languages. I’m not sure how useful that would be, given that there are many far more experienced and capable language learners on this forum. That said, I have decided to give a brief summary of the methods that I use.

I consider myself a poor language learner. I have a natural ability for solving mathematics problems, and can often solve a problem intuitively. Unfortunately I have a poor memory, and language does not come naturally. Indeed, I did not speak my native language until the age of five. I am also at 63 quite old although I believe that I am as capable at thinking as I was twenty years ago. And I have one superpower over my 20 year old self: I am far more methodical and I work harder

In my opinion there is no one correct method. Each person has to find a method that they enjoy, and which is effective. A celebrity learner might promote a given method, but I’m not convinced we should emulate highly experienced learners. Would a novice mountain climber adopt the methods of the world’s greatest climbers, or those more suited to a novice? Would a novice driver take lessons from a racing driver, or a driving school instructor? An experienced learner is far more alert to language features than a novice, hence they are more likely to notice features in the target language that a beginner would miss, and they are also used to adopting new ways of thinking.

In my limited experience, different languages require different methods. French and English share a huge vocabulary, hence a largely input based method can be effective. German and English on the other hand share far fewer words, especially in everyday language, which means that input is less useful early on, and the learner needs to develop new techniques to help them remember words. German also has a more complex grammar, with a case system, and distinct word order. I don’t doubt that Japanese, for example, presents even more challenges.

The method I have settled on is similar to that described by Alex Rawlins in his book “How To Speak Any Language Fluently”. Essentially language learning is not rocket science. You consume graded input, you study the content, translate the words and figure out the patterns i.e. grammar. Then you do some simple exercises and simple output in order to facilitate memorisation and to check that you understand the material. And gradually it starts to make sense. At the beginning you don’t know much, so you need simple material, and you do a lot of study and memorisation. You find it hard to memorise words as they are so different to anything you are used to. As you progress, you can start consuming more input for pleasure, including native material, and you do less active study. Once you reach an intermediate level and higher, you find it easier to memorise words and phrases simply because they can make more connections in your brain. The brain does not store words as distinct isolated objects, rather it stores a word by creating a mass of connections to existing memories, the more connections it can make, the stronger the memory.

I do agree with Mr Kaufmann and others who state that the learner should not memorise grammar tables and grammar rules. As Mr Kaufmann has said, it is worth reading an overview of the grammar beforehand, so that the learner is aware of the horrors - or pleasures - that await.

In my view, and others may disagree, study and output are an essential part of language learning. Countless videos on YouTube and pages on the internet claim that one can learn a language using input alone. I tried input alone with German as a complete beginner, and over 18 months I made very little progress. Words were not sticking. Once I started studying the text, and doing output by making up my own sentences, only then did I start to progress.

Online Applications (excluding LingQ)

I spent many months using various online apps, including Duolingo, Busuu and Babbel, and completed numerous so-called courses in French and German. In my view, and again others may disagree, these are not language learning methods. These applications use a form of spaced repetition, which is insufficient for learning a language. They provide insufficient input, so the learner is not exposed to the quantity of authentic language that they need. Even worse, they are designed to be addictive. The user becomes focussed on maximising his or her score, on winning points, and getting their daily dopamine fix. Language learning becomes a secondary goal. Gaining points provides an illusion of progress. The reason for this is simple. The product creators want to make money, and addiction is a powerful money making tool. At the end of one course I was told that I had reached B2 in German. In truth I was barely A2. Language learning applications are the language equivalent of MacDonalds ‘meals’ and fizzy pop (sodas). They are addictive, and provide a dopamine hit, but they are fundamentally bad for your health. They sell well because they are heavily advertised thanks to the huge profits that the manufacturers make.

French

My French comprehension is quite advanced, so these days I just watch videos and listen to podcasts. My French study has been largely input based for several years now, with plenty of online searches to understand aspects of grammar as I come across them. French has the advantage that English has borrowed huge numbers of words from French and Latin, hence we can guess the meaning of many words. It also has a similar word order to English, and does not use grammatical cases. We also share huge numbers of phrases such as **Il est con comme un balai**, he is daft as a brush, and **L’argent ne fait pas le bonheur**, money does not make you happy. My spoken French is more modest than my comprehension, albeit with a reasonable accent. It took me several years to understand most native language videos. I still struggle with some speakers, especially woman speaking in a very posh clipped manner and casual speech.

I use some simple exercises to help me understand spoken French:

  • Listen to a video while reading the transcript. This trains the brain to recognise words.

  • Listen to a video as a child does. In other words, let the sound enter the brain, and don’t try to translate. This disables the logical side of your brain, allowing a more intuitive processing of speech.

  • Listen to a video trying to understand the content.

It took me several years and hundreds of hours of practice before I could understand radio discussions and documentaries with ease. I think most of us underestimate how much practice is needed.

German

My German is currently B1 after three years and I am only now starting to get a feel for the language. I suspect I am a slow learner. I found German incredibly hard at the start as it was largely impenetrable and so unlike French and English. The method I use for German, which I think is also suitable for beginners, is as follows:

  • Find suitable videos and import them into LingQ.

  • Go through a video line by line, looking up words, and where necessary the grammar, figuring out what it means. Don’t worry too much about understanding everything, it often makes sense weeks later.

  • When coming across a sentence with new grammar or words, play around with it, changing the subject, or the tense, or the structure. This has a number of benefits. It helps check comprehension, it facilitates both noticing words and grammar and memorisation.

  • Save interesting and useful phrases in Anki for study at a later date.

  • Go to the next video and repeat.

  • Go back to the previous video, and listen through, looking up any words that are not understood.

  • Go to the next unstudied video.

  • And so on.

I am sure many of us here use this kind of approach. I currently spend one hour a day studying short videos.

In my experience the key is to find good videos. The content should be graded, authentic, clear and interesting. Some YouTube videos are not even created by native speakers, they use AI voices and contain errors. Others are not suitable for learners as many words appear only once, instead of being repeated across videos. This is true even with videos targeted at learners. Unfortunately a lot of YouTube videos are of mediocre quality and produced by people who have little or no experience in teaching. I prefer to use videos from larger news and cultural organisations as they tend to produce higher quality material, created by professional staff, who are trained in communicating.

I currently use videos from Tageschaue in Einfacher Sprache. These videos are designed for B1 learners, the content is interesting, the language is clear and words are regularly repeated to help learning. I have also used some videos from Herr Antrim. Although he is a non native speaker, and makes a few mistakes, I enjoy his videos, and enjoyment is very important.

German caused me immense trouble because everyday non technical language shares so few words with English. Fortunately it is a very logical language, and the learner can often break down words into their components, and guess the meaning. Thus entschuldigen means to excuse. It is a horrible, long road crash of a word overloaded with consonants. However, once you know that Schuld means debt or guilt, ent is a prefix that often means removal of something, and igen is a common verb ending, we can guess the meaning. Prepositions are another hurdle. I found it helpful to discover the underlying concept for each preposition. Thus in in English means inside or in, so an object can be in a box, or in the sky. In German in has a more restricted meaning corresponding to inside a container. Thus an object can be in a box, but a star cannot be in the sky as the sky is not a closed container. Thus we must use an: Der Stern is am Himmel.

Anki

Each morning I open Anki and review the words and phrases that it presents. I find this incredibly useful as a way to revise words and grammar, and it helps me understand the grammar especially the case system. I do not recommend Anki as the core of a language study method, rather it is useful as an add on.

I do not recommend using Anki with single words, unless the word has a clear unambiguous meaning, such as la belette which means weasel in French. The brain learns language by forming connections, thus the more connections it can form to a word, the more likely you are to remember it. And in addition many words are only used in certain contexts. For this reason authentic sentences are usually the best way to learn vocabulary. A sentence has the advantages that you see the word in context, you learn how to use the word, you revise or learn the other words in the sentence, and you revise grammar. And of course you have a useful phrase which you can use as is, or modified as appropriate.

Podcasts

I also listen to podcasts in German which I don’t really understand. I sometimes understand a phrase, sometimes a fragment, and sometimes just some words. I find this helps me to automatise word and grammar recall. Even when I don’t understand a phrase, the act of hearing a word and recalling it provides useful practice. One of the big tasks in language learning is going from knowing a word, to recalling that word instantaneously. I found with French that input was initially not very useful, apart from lessons of course, but once I reached B2, it became key to my learning.

I don’t know if listening to poorly understood podcasts is the most efficient approach, but as with most of my language learning, it forms part of a suck it and see approach. It certainly does no harm, other than consuming time.

Problems Encountered

The biggest problem I encountered, especially with German, was not understanding the process of how language learning works. There is so much bad advice out there, mainly from manufacturers of commercial language learning products, that it is possible to adopt bad practices, and waste time and effort, as I did. I recommend the book by Alex Rawlings, mentioned earlier. I also find that advice from Richard Simcott, Luca Lampariello and Professor Tim Keeley is helpful and matches my own experience. I advise against the Comprehensible Input approach, created by Stephen Krashen, as it is far too simplistic and it’s claims have been discredited by research.

Another problem was changing my way of thinking. I have a very analytic and logical way of thinking, which is consistent with having a degree and PhD in physics. Unfortunately this is perhaps a hindrance in language learning. The danger with analytical thinking is that you analyse a language in terms of your current knowledge and assumptions, and become resistant to new ideas. The goal of language learning is to adopt new ways of thinking, which in part requires that you see the assumptions that form part of your own language. Prepositions are a good example. German has in, an, bei and zu which at first glance look like in, at, by and to in English. However they represent different concepts, albeit with some overlap with the English ones.

Final Words

My weakness is lack of output with native speakers. I am sure some people prefer to talk with native speakers early on. I would find that uncomfortable, and prefer to develop my comprehension first.

I have a system that I enjoy, but I’m sure there are other methods, maybe better ones, or improvements to the one I use.

I am sure others here have interesting thoughts. I would be interested in hearing about other methods or techniques, and also how other people went about practising speaking with a native speaker. I would also be interested from anyone who completely disagrees with some or all of the above, or whose experiences differ markedly, especially in relation to languages close to German and French.

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Thanks for taking the time writing down your experiences. One annotation, if I may.

Those videos aren’t designed for language learners, but for all kinds of people with language incapabilities, including people who suffered a stroke, have mental deficits, dyslexia and so on. It is actually somewhat controversely disputed as all those groups have very different needs and the simplification sometimes reaches a level where the actual information gets butchered.

It is actually nowhere close to how Germans really speak. It may be of use to acquire vocabulary and immigrants are supposed to be one target group from what I’ve read, but whether it is really suitable for that purpose is questionable and if you are already at an B1 level, I would suggest you watch normal news instead. You get the same or even more fitting vocabulary, lots of standard grammar and all of that clearly spoken and at a pace that is relatively slow but not to an extent where it becomes unnatural.

I completely second this.

As well as this. ChatGPT has actually proven quiet useful for this. Not only to help with vocabulary but also sentence order and solidifying grammar. And it is a fun addition, as it is a much more active way of using a language besides reading, which is fun, too, but rather passive.

The most enjoyable and probably efficient way is most likely using the language communicating with others. My English has improved significantly once I started chatting online. But you need some fundament in a language before this makes sense, I guess.

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I am very happy to be the forum user who made that request. Thank you for writing such a detailed post on this topic. I will start reading it in depth as soon as possible. Thank you for your contributions.

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That’s quite amusing. :wink:

I found German very hard. These videos have been extremely helpful, probably because there’s not too much new vocabulary and the usage is simple so I can get used to basic grammar. No doubt I will move on to more complex videos soon.

My need was for simple but grammatically correct German in a form that could act as a course. I’m not too bothered that it is unnatural, that will come later.

I have watched News in Slow German which I found too complex, although it’s not so bad now.

I forgot about conversing with AI.

Thanks for the comments.

I have a question for you. Since you already had the experience of learning French under your belt, what made you opt for apps like Duolingo and similar tools? Also, why did you consider those apps a form of comprehensible input?
Why not study grammar along the way while also reading graded readers and gradually working your way up to more challenging material?
That said, I agree with most of your points, especially the idea that different languages require different learning strategies. German is a good example. Its grammar can be so complex and nuanced that it can be difficult to pick up through reading and listening alone. Things like double comparatives, relative clauses, and more advanced sentence structures often benefit from explicit study.
Reaching B1 in three years is solid progress, especially if you’re not treating German like a full-time job. If you keep at it, there’s definitely reason to be optimistic about where you’ll end up.
And I think you’ll develop an even deeper appreciation for German once you reach B2 and beyond. That’s where the language really starts to come alive. You begin to appreciate its precision, nuance, and expressive range. At that level, German can sound surprisingly mellifluous, and you start to feel that you’re playing in the big leagues.

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I read 3000 words a day and over several years, Greek has become clearer. I’ll speak more when the words come to me easier and this is improving.
“You can’t just use input” claims usually talk about high levels of fluency so are a certain amount dishonest.

I know no Greek, so I cannot comment on details.

I assume you are looking up words, maybe looking up grammar and phrases, in other words you do some study and do not follow Krashen’s definition of Comprehensible Input.

How good is your comprehension of spoken Greek? Do you get all of the meaning, or most of it or just the gist?

When you output, do you get verb and other conjugations correct? Do you get prepositions correct? How about word order?

I have seen many people claiming that you can just use input to learn a language, and that is the key claim of Krashen. To me learning a language means being able to understand to a high accuracy, and speak well, with correct use of grammar including conjugations and word order. My understanding is that the position of most linguists is that input only will not get such a result.

As I said earlier, the input only approach did not work at all for me, but it does seem that other people have more success with it. However, those who promote it often have a financial reason to do so, although it is also true that most YouTube language ‘influencers’ are pushing their own product based on a magic method.

Thanks for your very detailed and honest post. I really enjoy reading those instead of ADHD-like nonsense posts or complaints.
Very refreshing.
I also write novels like that one all the time and I very much agree with all of this. Your very own experience goes over everything anybody else tells you.
By the way, as a German myself, I can recommend you resources from sprachenhub.com where there is for German under the external resources page a long list of resources & articles, a vocabulary-based course with texts with repeating vocab, also resources for French and my CNVRSY YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@CNVRSY1, where I dissect German texts with their meaning and a more detailed explanation - maybe not lingq-like in terms of the approach but you will understand it better, hopefully.

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A friend who spoke fluent English and German told me about Duolingo which he was using to learn French. I’d been wanting to pick up French for decades, so I checked and Duolingo made impressive claims, which people online seemed to agree with. Hence I subscribed. So, in short, naivety and ignorance.

I don’t, I consider them to be Spaced Repetition. They teach the user a collection of words and phrases, but there is not sufficient input for the user to develop any depth of understanding, so they are no more than a parrot.

You have to remember that I was starting from a position of ignorance, with little knowledge of understanding of how the brain learns language, and subject to countless competing claims from the likes of Krashen and Duolingo. Today I am far more informed and realise that so much of the “How to learn a language” information available online and on social media is framed by financial considerations. Or to put it more succinctly, it is balls.

I am sure your suggestion would be far better than Duolingo et al. Add authentic audio with the text, then yes I think that would be excellent. That is the sort of approach I would adopt with a third language.

My preferred method would be like your suggestion, except that the graded readers would come with videos, and they would introduce grammar points along the way, with an explanation of each grammar point and some examples, as well as examples in the text, perhaps with some exercises. So it would be a guided course but with much more input. However, that would probably require too much effort to produce.

Thank you. It is reassuring that other experienced language learners have come to similar conclusions.

Thank you. I am starting to enjoy German and I am at the stage where comments in German on YouTube videos make sense. I have heard it said that at the start it is harder than French and other romance languages, but then it gets easier thanks to its logical structure.

It occurred to me after my previous reply that we have to be very clear what we mean by input only. Krashen claimed that we learn by understanding messages that we hear or read, that we understand most of the content, 95 % say, thus defining Comprehensible Input, and we infer the rest from context. When we use LingQ, we normally stop to look up words or to look at the translation of a phrase. We might even use a search engine to find an explanation of a grammar point. In other words, we are not using input only. We are using input with study. And some of us use input with study and output.

I believe some people have tried input only as an experiment.

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Thank you for your post. We indeed share similarities as for language learning.

I highly recommend you this Youtube Channel for German.

Deutsch mit Lara - YouTube

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It is reassuring that other people use similar methods and have similar experiences. Thank you for the recommendation, unfortunately she uses vocal fry or creeky voice, which I find extremely unpleasant. Oh well. :>

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I give my 50 cents to this:

I spend my time 80% with massive input, which is 75% just LingQ and 5% reading a book or magazine directly on paper. The 5% paper reading is for getting a better feeling where I am in my progress, because I cannot look up the words immediately.

The rest of the 20% is split into a bit of Duolingo (5%) which subscription will end next month and I will not continue with it, because they invested their precious time and resources in making stupid games. This is an offense to an serious language learner from my point of view.

The rest of the 15% are videos and music (russian radio). When I like a video, then I also import it into LingQ directly and read it there again. Usually I do not rewatch the video after reading, because I prefer to just go on.

I have two work colleagues with whom I can practice my Russian and they give me feedback. For that I’m very grateful.

When I’m going shopping food or when I visit the restaurant I encounter many Russian people and I noticed that this method of massive input (80%) and a bit of different methods helped me in almost one year to learn so much, to be able to understand and speak at least the basics. LingQ says I’m B2, and it maybe true for reading … but for sure not for speaking. But I was aware of that when I started with LingQ. I know from personal experience that massive input is for me the right way to learn. It worked with English.

Regarding grammar, I was so bad at it at school and I just don’t remember all the rules even in my native language, so I it does not make sense for me to even try to learn grammar. I needed to look up every name of the rule, because I cannot remember the “pronouns” and “prepositions”. I was always a good reader, devouring many books in German, English and some in Italian. Grammar comes as an add-on with time. But indeed Babbel is a fun app for learning grammar in an easy way. I just have no time for it now. But I plan to replace Duolingo with Babbel.

If I would learn a new language, completely new one, like for example Greek, then I would start a bit differently. I see the learning path of a language like a spiral. For this I would use LingQ in combination with ChatGPT and create personalized lessons from the beginning.

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The part about studying German through short videos stood out to me. Going through the same material more than once and playing around with the sentences seems much more useful than simply collecting new words. I also agree with keeping Anki as a supplement rather than making it the whole study method.

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