ad Friedemann: This might be very subjective, but every time you join a thread I feel the quality of the content goes up very quickly not just because of your own posts (with which I need not necessarily agree but I like your clear line of arguments and your unpretentious way of presenting your ideas) but also because you seem to spark some equally interesting responses (I’m not referring to myself now ;-).
As for your actual contribution to this thread, I completely agree with you.
ad JayB: I was about to give myself a rest before I board the plane but somehow I got hooked onto this thread
(…) Would it really be such a terrible person who behaved this way? (…)
No, of course not. You can love and spread peace as much as you want and I hope you do I just don’t think you need the Bible to do so. There are many people out there who have never come into contact with the Bible and I have no doubt whatsoever that they are just as capable of loving others and caring for them as any Christian.
The NT has some really good passages in it and I guess it is also true that the texts were written at a time where many issues raised in the various scriptures were quite revolutionary and progressive. I’m not saying the Bible is bad in itself. I just don’t believe that it is a “holy scripture” and I don’t believe in the existence of God. Nor do I believe it is particularly suited for language learners but ALL this is just my personal point of view. You (and everybody else of course) are free to disagree. You have your own reasons that make you a believer and that is fine. I don’t even need to know these reasons because you have managed to keep an open mind and that is all that counts for me.
I don’t like people who present themselves as some “know-it-all” guru. Apart from that I very much enjoy discussions that allow for an exchange of opinion.
When LMY wrote that when people are defending religion they always ask people to look at the good which religion fosters I think he kind of suggested (but I may be wrong) that they sort of shut their gates when other people remind them of all the bad things religions have caused. I had similar experiences in all the religious groups I was a member of. The tiniest positive event in their life was attributed to God while anything negative was always attributed to Satan or the fact that people having lost their connection with God (as they put it) supposedly caused all the grief and pain, it never ever was God’s responsibility. Why then not credit some plain human beings for at least some good that happens in this world? I just don’t find their reasoning very logical, that’s all.
Believe me, I’m not trying to convince people that they ought to stop believing in a God. I simply question most of their arguments. If they want to believe in those scriptures it is their choice and they should be free to do so but there are limits to what one can do whether you are a believer or not.
Friedemann’s example as to same sex marriage raises a valid point in my opinion. We just had a case touching upon this issue in a more general way here in Austria. A young man living together with another man was elected as a member of the parish council (Pfarrgemeinderat) with an overwhelming 95 % of the votes. The priest refused to accept his election since he said it was against the law of God and that the Bible condemns such “unions”. The Bishop had to intervene, first agreed with the priest and then graciously confirmed the election because - as he put it - he was personally convinced that even though being a sinner the young man was committed to the cause of the catholic church and that other members should pray for him to find the right path and stop living in sin. He also said that next time gay people should be banned from the list of eligible candidates beforehand to avoid any similar problems.
In a way this is all still acceptable to me because the catholic church to me is like a private club. If I don’t like its rules, I don’t join it or leave it (that’s what I did). It is problematic though when they try to interfere with the rest of the society as they did about 10 years ago when they urged our government to ban gay people from teaching and coaching positions (coaches as in coaches for sports teams at school etc.). And they actually based their claim on the Bible. This is where I draw the line. We live in a free and democratic but secular state that is not governed based on religious dogmas and I want it to stay like this.
As for the German saying Friedemann mentioned I must admit I have never heard it before and I’m afraid I would not have understood it if I had not been given lots of context But I like the idea behind that saying.
Man lernt eben nie aus, auch nicht in seiner Muttersprache. Und das war’s wirklich für heute. Ab jetzt bin ich auch geistig im Urlaub Übrigens bist du einer der wenigen Konservativen (ich meine das nicht abwertend), mit denen ich mich gerne unterhalte, weil du nicht nur austeilst, sondern auch einstecken kannst, ohne gleich ausfallend oder arrogant zu werden.