and French
French is, to my ears, a lovely language, with its pleasant nasal sounds. In a way, part of what makes it pleasant is the fact that not only living things, but all objects, have to be either masculine or feminine. This is called gender. There is no rhyme or reason for the gender, except that the Romans did it. There are rules to help you remember which things are masculine (words that end in consonants for example) and which are feminine ( words that end in “ion” for example), but there are exceptions, as with most rules. You can find these rules on the Internet but it will be hard to remember them. It will just take time to get used to all of this and you will continue to make mistakes. Don’t worry about it. I still make mistakes with gender and I do not worry about it.
Gender seems to influence a lot of things in French, but the good thing is that getting the gender wrong will have little affect on meaning. In any case you will need to focus on listening and reading and understanding at first. You will notice that words will have a masculine form and a feminine form. You will gradually get used to it by doing a lot listening and reading, and especially by saving phrases when you create LingQs.
French verbs, with all their endings, can seem a challenge at first, but I can assure you get used to them. You need to realize that the form of the verb, that is to say the endings, change with each person. “Je parle, tu parles, il parle, nous parlons, vous parlez, ils parlent”. Since one of the delights of French is that letters are often silent, you may not hear the fact that the endings are different. This is great since you can fake it a little when you speak.
But there are other problems. There are many irregular verbs. So when we talk about going somewhere, we get “je vais, tu vas, il va, nous allons, vous allez, ils vont”. Nowadays it is easy to Google “French verbs” and find tables with all of the forms of any verb you want. So I will not give any more examples here.
There are two very important verbs in French that are used to form the past tense. The verb which means “to have” , “avoir”, and the verb that means “to be”, “etre”. The French do not say “I ate”. They say “I have eaten” “j’ai mange”… They do not say “I went”. They say “I am gone” “je suis alle”. Just be aware of it and watch as the forms of some of the verbs change. If you are confused you can ask on the LingQ forum.
I recommend that you save every form of the verb that you come across at LingQ. Each form is a different tense or person, and the phrases that come with it are different each time. Do not be stingy with your LingQing. The more you LingQ the better you will learn.
A few more comments and you are on your way. To ask a question in French you can either reverse the word order, much like in English, or use the pattern of “is it that you are going?” “est-ce que vous allez?”.
As for saying “no” in French, the French are not happy just saying “I am not”. They like to add another negative word. So they say “Je ne suis pas”. Watch for the double negatives.
There are lots of French grammar resources on the web, or you may want to buy a small grammar book. Refer to these resources from time to time, but don’t spend too much time trying to memorize rules. With enough listening, reading and LingQing things will start to seem clearer and clearer. Eventually, even the grammar rules will make sense.