Ha, ha, ha, S.I.! Very nice meta-comment.
As I wrote yesterday, common-sense based discussions arenât good enough any more when it comes to first / second language(s) and communication. For example, there are no such things as âpassiveâ reading, âpassiveâ listening, âpassiveâ vocabulary, communication as the âtransfer (sending / receiving) of thoughtsâ, communication as the âfusion of mindsâ (social mind, collective / group memory, global / group consciousness, intersubjectivity, âŠ) etc.
- In a literal sense, thatâs nonsense.
- In a figurative sense, these are just metaphors without any explanatory value.
Whatâs lacking here are good scientific theories - but nowadays we have some of them (e.g. Luhmannâs social systems)
Ergo, itâs a bad idea to completely ignore science (i.e. psychology, linguistics, SLA, etc.) and claim an epistemic superiority of non-specialized everyday discussions over specialized scientific discussions where a lot of research is involved. Especially the latter is nonsense with a capital N 
âso you donât feel like a piece of shitâ
If people separate their sense of self-worth and the development of competence in (practical) skills acquisition processes then this problem doesnât come up because itâs not about oneâs ego and the protection of oneâs sense of self-worth.
Itâs about soberly evaluating oneâs strengths and weaknesses with regard to various skill levels and then take the right measures, i.e. reading scientific and other literature, practicing, setting goals, and so on.
Otherwise, the âDunning-Kruger biasâ may take over to protect a fragile sense of self-worth:
âThe researchers attributed the trend to a problem of metacognitionâthe ability to analyze oneâs own thoughts or performance. âThose with limited knowledge in a domain suffer a dual burden: Not only do they reach mistaken conclusions and make regrettable errors, but their incompetence robs them of the ability to realize it,
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In fact, those who are the least skilled are also the most likely to overestimate their abilities.â
(Dunning-Kruger Effect | Psychology Today)
So the general problem for all of us is:
- We canât appreciate what we canât understand.
- We donât understand because we donât know.
- We donât know that we donât know.
In short, weâre all incompetent / ignorant - sometimes sooner, sometimes later.
Then there are two options:
- Realizing oneâs incompetence and doing something about it without having to protect oneâs sense of self-worth.
- Protecting oneâs sense of self-worth by creating illusions of competence without doing anything against oneâs incompetence.
Who do you think is the better learner and info processor?
âPeter [not] out [yet], Have a [not ] nice day.â
Just choose one of the four options 
PS -
âlost in one of the Peterâs treatise in the comments.â
In this case, itâs a good idea to read only the bold = important things or ignore the comment in its entirety. 